alleviate some harsh self-criticism

They think the reflection delete complete will alleviate some harsh self-criticism.Reflection (tell me) "from here" (your hands below the chin said the bottom line) is only a heavy one would want to see reflected back.
This is what I do for years, and my death! I have been carefully check in my reflection, I might not make as they tend to do pile so long time.But this is my 20/20 afterwards, as they say, right? The first thing I do in my operation is to buy a cheap $12 full-length mirror, so I can "watch" my body is how to change.Oh, let me tell you, how much I cringe to see me in the mirror! I wiped the tears from my eyes, I know, I have the tools by weight loss operation to get rid of the excess weight now.But this is a very harsh reality, in the face of such reflection.
But with the pound has fallen, I began to learn to love my new reflex.Of course, I saw the cover skin, lack of intonation, and countless other flaws I can list to fill a book called the city of New York, but the good news is, I'm on a diet, atrophy of my body! And I not only learn to appreciate the reflection in a mirror body, I have learned to stop to avoid reflective glass! There was one day when I walked past a huge shop windows as fast as I could, so I can't see myself in the glass reflection......Of course I don't want others to see it either! When I lost my weight so quickly, I get used to actually stop and look at myself in the mirror glass in stores, restaurants, and even the marble on the office wall.My husband looks, one day, "enough," this kind of behavior, is the right, said to me, "you are too blade!" I am, he paused, don't know me, I said, "I'm not leaf......I have to make sure it is really where i......I don't know I look like half the time."Then he fell on his words of shame in half agree, even hard for him to keep up with the new how do I look.Another reason why we do not admit they are because we wardrobe often change narrow, we don't know what it is we in those clothes!
In order to prove this point do not know our own reflection, I want to share the following "capsule", illustrates this point fully.This is an experience, one of my friends has: She said, "I want a restaurant for a big birthday celebration.Across the room, I saw a woman looks so familiar to me.I can't stop staring at her, I found her staring at me a lot.I asked my husband if he knows who is on the opposite side of the woman, but he couldn't find out who I was talking about.I more and more curious about the woman I know, I know where I met her.